Who really owns a man? His mother or wife?

Who really owns a man? His mother or wife?
 Mother:- My son must obey me unless he didn't suck my breast 4 1yr,
 wife:- He sucks mine now & sucked it 4more dan 5yrs and is still sucking.
 Mother: I carried him nine mnths.
 Wife:He was only 3.5kg den, so whats d big deal? I carry him evry night and he is 85kg now.
Mother.:- He passd btwn my legs.
 Wife:- Hahaha, he only passd dia once, he stays in-betwn my legs like evryday. Pls WHO OWNS A MAN